I only want a girl

“I only want a girl!”

If I had a treat for every time someone told me they were only interested in a female kitten… I’d have to hide the Temptations bag.

Here’s the truth that most breeders know — and most kitten buyers don’t:

Male Ragdolls are often the bigger snugglers, the clowns, and the easiest to please.

Yes, really.

While people assume girls are sweeter or calmer, it’s usually the boys who are glued to your side, flopping in your lap like they own the place. They’re laid-back, goofy, and endlessly cuddly.

And the girls?

Also wonderful — but often a little more independent, opinionated, and (dare I say it?) a bit bossy. We lovingly call them the “queens” of the house. They adore their people, but usually on their own terms.

So why are females requested more often?

Because of some very common — and honestly, outdated — ideas:

• That females are smaller, sweeter, and easier to live with

• That males spray or are more territorial (when neutered boys usually aren’t at all)

• That people want a girl to “match” their family or replace a female they once loved

But here’s what experienced breeders will tell you:

• Males tend to be more consistently affectionate, easygoing, and people-focused

• Females can be a little sassier, more independent, and like to run the show

So if you’re open-minded, here’s something to consider:

Your perfect kitten might not be the gender you expected.

And if you know exactly what you want? That’s totally okay too.

Just thought it was worth saying out loud.

Why I Vaccinate later

🐾 Why I Vaccinate Later — Starting at 12 Weeks, One Shot at a Time

When families bring home a Casablanca Ragdoll, I want them to feel confident about every decision I’ve made for their kitten’s health. One of the questions I get most often is:

“Why do you wait until around 12 weeks to start vaccinations — and why do you only give one vaccine at a time?”

Here’s the reasoning behind my choice, backed by science, experience, and a short video (see below).

🎥 Watch This Video

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🌱 Maternal Antibodies: Nature’s Early Protection

Kittens are born with immature immune systems, but mom steps in to help. During the first hours of life, kittens receive maternal antibodies through her colostrum and milk. These antibodies are amazing — they protect kittens from common diseases during those fragile early weeks.

But here’s the catch:

These same antibodies can block vaccines from working.

A vaccine given too early may be completely neutralized by mom’s antibodies — meaning the kitten doesn’t get true immunity.

Veterinary studies show that maternal antibodies may interfere with vaccines until 12–16 weeks or later. That means if you vaccinate too soon, you might just be giving a “wasted” shot with no lasting protection.

🐾 Why I Wait Until Around 12 Weeks

Because I run a closed cattery (no outside cats, no exposure to shelter pathogens), I have the luxury of letting maternal antibodies do their job before I step in with vaccines.

Waiting until 12 weeks allows:

✅ Better vaccine response – Mom’s antibodies have mostly waned, so the vaccine “takes.”

✅ Fewer unnecessary injections – I can give a smaller number of well-timed shots, not a long series of potentially wasted ones.

✅ Stronger immune memory – Older kittens mount a more robust immune response.

💉 Why I Give Only One Vaccine at a Time

When it’s time to vaccinate, I do it slowly and intentionally. Giving only one vaccine per visit helps:

🩺 Pinpoint reactions – If a kitten ever has a reaction, I know exactly which vaccine caused it.

🧠 Support the immune system – One antigen at a time means less stress on the body.

🗓 Space things out safely – Each vaccine has time to “work” before introducing another.

This is a gentler approach that puts the kitten’s comfort and health first.

📚 Studies & Guidelines

I follow recommendations from trusted veterinary sources:

ABCD Feline Guidelines – Maternal antibody interference can persist until 16+ weeks.

Cornell Feline Health Center – Early vaccines can be neutralized and fail to produce immunity.

AAHA / AAFP Vaccination Guidelines – Emphasize the importance of repeated doses until maternal interference fades.

Because I keep my environment controlled, I can safely time vaccines for when they’re most likely to work.

❤️ My Goal: Healthy, Confident Kittens

Every decision I make — from when I start vaccines to how I schedule them — is about giving your kitten the best possible start. When your Ragdoll comes home, you can be confident they’ve been protected in the safest way possible.

A lighthearted guide to things I hear more often than you'd think... 😅

❌ “Can I visit your house before I decide if I like you?”

💬 Sure, let me just turn my private home into a walk-in petting zoo for strangers off the internet! (Kidding. But seriously—between safety, biosecurity, and zoning laws, that’s a no-go.) Even if you showed up with coffee and a basket of laundry to fold, it’s still not happening.

I've shared on this before, and it still stands: trust can be built in other ways. Just peek at my reviews. 💁🏻‍♀️

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❌ “Can you hold a kitten for me until I get paid?”

💬 I totally understand—life is expensive. But raising kittens isn’t cheap either, and I don’t cut corners. There’s constant investment: vet care, health testing, quality food, toys, supplements, vaccines, worming, microchipping, spay/neuter, cleaning supplies, and round-the-clock care.

I don’t hold a kitten without a deposit. It’s not just policy—it’s mutual commitment.

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❌ “What’s the cheapest you’ll take?”

❌ “I don’t need papers—I just want a cheap cat.”

💬 Oh sweetie… this isn’t Craigslist, and we’re not haggling over a microwave. Adding a Ragdoll to your home is a long-term commitment—think 12 to 18+ years.

You’re not buying “just a cat.” You’re welcoming a kitten raised with intention, love, 24/7 care, early socialization, health-tested parents, and proper veterinary care—including microchipping and being spayed or neutered before going home. ❤️

Looking for a bargain? Just remember: quality reflects care, and care isn’t cheap.

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❌ “I want a kitten right now.”

💬 Kittens aren’t takeout—you can’t order one up and expect it ready to go.

Litters are planned well in advance(5 months from breeding to home), and kittens only go home after hitting key milestones—at least 12 weeks of age, vet checks, social development, microchipping, and spay/neuter.

Sometimes one’s available right away, but most of the time, you’ll want to hop on the waitlist.

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❌ “There’s an older kitten still available—what’s wrong with it?”

❌ “Since it’s older than 12 weeks, can I get a discount?”

💬 Whew. Deep breath.

There’s nothing wrong with a kitten just because they’re older. Maybe the original family had to delay, or I was holding them back to evaluate for breeding.

And older? Often means more. More food, more litter, more laundry, more training, more vet visits, more snuggles.

By 14–16 weeks, that kitten is further along socially and developmentally—sometimes even sleeping through the night (bless 🙌).

So no, older doesn’t mean less valuable—it often means more valuable and better prepared.

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Most frequently asked:

❌ “I want a super cuddly lapcat.”

💬 Don’t we all? 😄 I raise my kittens with tons of love and hands-on time, so they’re well-socialized and used to affection—but keep in mind, kittens go through stages. One week they’re velcro babies, the next they’re climbing the curtains.

Their true personalities really start to shine as they grow up, and how cuddly they become has a lot to do with the time and bonding they get in their new home.

If snuggles are what you’re after, invest in that relationship early—and it’ll pay off big time. 💕