A lighthearted guide to things I hear more often than you'd think... 😅

❌ “Can I visit your house before I decide if I like you?”

💬 Sure, let me just turn my private home into a walk-in petting zoo for strangers off the internet! (Kidding. But seriously—between safety, biosecurity, and zoning laws, that’s a no-go.) Even if you showed up with coffee and a basket of laundry to fold, it’s still not happening.

I've shared on this before, and it still stands: trust can be built in other ways. Just peek at my reviews. 💁🏻‍♀️

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❌ “Can you hold a kitten for me until I get paid?”

💬 I totally understand—life is expensive. But raising kittens isn’t cheap either, and I don’t cut corners. There’s constant investment: vet care, health testing, quality food, toys, supplements, vaccines, worming, microchipping, spay/neuter, cleaning supplies, and round-the-clock care.

I don’t hold a kitten without a deposit. It’s not just policy—it’s mutual commitment.

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❌ “What’s the cheapest you’ll take?”

❌ “I don’t need papers—I just want a cheap cat.”

💬 Oh sweetie… this isn’t Craigslist, and we’re not haggling over a microwave. Adding a Ragdoll to your home is a long-term commitment—think 12 to 18+ years.

You’re not buying “just a cat.” You’re welcoming a kitten raised with intention, love, 24/7 care, early socialization, health-tested parents, and proper veterinary care—including microchipping and being spayed or neutered before going home. ❤️

Looking for a bargain? Just remember: quality reflects care, and care isn’t cheap.

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❌ “I want a kitten right now.”

💬 Kittens aren’t takeout—you can’t order one up and expect it ready to go.

Litters are planned well in advance(5 months from breeding to home), and kittens only go home after hitting key milestones—at least 12 weeks of age, vet checks, social development, microchipping, and spay/neuter.

Sometimes one’s available right away, but most of the time, you’ll want to hop on the waitlist.

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❌ “There’s an older kitten still available—what’s wrong with it?”

❌ “Since it’s older than 12 weeks, can I get a discount?”

💬 Whew. Deep breath.

There’s nothing wrong with a kitten just because they’re older. Maybe the original family had to delay, or I was holding them back to evaluate for breeding.

And older? Often means more. More food, more litter, more laundry, more training, more vet visits, more snuggles.

By 14–16 weeks, that kitten is further along socially and developmentally—sometimes even sleeping through the night (bless 🙌).

So no, older doesn’t mean less valuable—it often means more valuable and better prepared.

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Most frequently asked:

❌ “I want a super cuddly lapcat.”

💬 Don’t we all? 😄 I raise my kittens with tons of love and hands-on time, so they’re well-socialized and used to affection—but keep in mind, kittens go through stages. One week they’re velcro babies, the next they’re climbing the curtains.

Their true personalities really start to shine as they grow up, and how cuddly they become has a lot to do with the time and bonding they get in their new home.

If snuggles are what you’re after, invest in that relationship early—and it’ll pay off big time. 💕

What to Watch for With Cat Vaccines

What to Watch for With Cat Vaccines — From Mild Reactions to Anaphylaxis

Vaccines are an essential part of protecting your cat’s long-term health, especially during kittenhood. But just like with people, some cats can have reactions — and while most are mild and short-lived, others can be more serious.

As a breeder and a nurse, I’ve witnessed both sides of this experience: the typical, sleepy-after-shots kitten and, in rare cases, severe vaccine reactions that required emergency care. My goal in this post is to help you recognize the signs, know what to do, and feel prepared, not panicked.

🐾 Mild Vaccine Reactions in Cats (Very Common)

Most kittens experience a little immune response after vaccines. These signs are usually nothing to worry about and resolve within a day or two:

Mild fever

Sleepiness or lower energy

Less interest in food

Slight swelling or soreness at the injection site

Temporary limping (especially after rabies vaccines)

🩺 What to do:

Let your kitten rest, keep them comfortable, and offer fresh water and food. Monitor for any changes. If these symptoms last more than 48 hours, give your vet a quick call.

⚠️ Moderate to Serious Reactions

Some cats experience more intense reactions. These can happen a few hours after the shot — and they require fast attention:

Vomiting or diarrhea

Puffy face or hives

Heavy drooling

Rash or itchy skin

Wheezing or fast breathing

Agitation or distress

📞 What to do:

Contact your vet immediately. These reactions can get worse quickly, and fast intervention matters.

🚨 Anaphylactic Reactions (Emergency)

Though rare, anaphylaxis is life-threatening and needs immediate emergency care. It can develop within minutes or a few hours after a vaccine.

Signs of Anaphylaxis:

Sudden vomiting or diarrhea

Facial swelling or puffiness

Foaming at the mouth

Jaw stiffness or refusal to open the mouth

Difficulty breathing

Lethargy or collapse

🚑 What to do:

Head straight to your vet or emergency clinic. Don’t wait — anaphylaxis moves fast and requires medical intervention with antihistamines, steroids, and supportive care.

❗Important to Know:

A reaction can happen with any vaccine, not just the first dose.

Even if your cat tolerated a previous round just fine, their immune system may react differently the next time.

🧴 Benadryl Can Help in an Emergency

Keep plain Benadryl (diphenhydramine) on hand — tablets or liquid (not children’s versions, and never with xylitol or additives).

Need help with dosing? Save this handy calculator:

🔗 Cat Benadryl Dosage Calculator

Always consult your vet before giving Benadryl.

🛡️ My Best Tips for Safer Vaccine Visits

These are the steps I follow and recommend to all my kitten families:

1. Only give one vaccine at a time. No combo shots.

2. Space vaccines out by at least 3–4 weeks.

3. Schedule vaccines early in the day, not right before the clinic closes.

4. Avoid the Feline Leukemia Virus (FeLV) vaccine unless your cat is at genuine risk (e.g., outdoor exposure).

5. Support detox naturally — I use Adored Beast Rebalancer to help kittens process the vaccine safely.

6. Trust your instincts. You know your cat. If something seems off, speak up or head to your vet.

💙 Final Thoughts

Vaccines save lives — but like all medical treatments, they’re not one-size-fits-all. By learning what to watch for and being prepared, you can make every vet visit safer for your cat or kitten.

If you’re part of my kitten family and ever have questions about vaccine schedules, detox support, or how to recognize a reaction, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Stay informed, and snuggle those kitties! 🐾

What's the Best Combo for Pet Ragdoll Cats?

What’s the Best Combo for Pet Ragdoll Cats? Male, Female, or Both?

Thinking of adding more than one Ragdoll to your home? Great choice! Ragdolls are social, affectionate, and tend to get along beautifully with each other. But which combo is best when it comes to personality and harmony—two boys, two girls, or one of each?

Here’s a breakdown of what to expect:

Male + Female (both desexed):

This is often the most balanced pair. The male is usually the goofball—loving, playful, and often following you like a shadow. The female is typically more poised, affectionate in a quieter way, and tends to rule the roost. Together, they complement each other perfectly.

Best for: Families who want both playful energy and calm cuddles.

Male + Male:

This is a favorite combo among Ragdoll lovers. Male Ragdolls are known for their easygoing nature and love of companionship—both human and feline. Two boys usually bond well, wrestle, nap together, and share everything from toys to your lap.

Best for: Homes that want a dynamic duo of fun-loving, cuddly boys.

Female + Female:

This pairing can work well too, especially if both girls have sweet, gentle personalities. Some females may take a little longer to bond fully, especially if one has a strong personality. But once they settle, they become lifelong pals.

Best for: Calm households or those who love quieter, more reserved affection.

Kitten Tip:

When adopting two kittens at once, gender often matters less than personality. If you're choosing from a litter, look for pairs who naturally gravitate toward each other or play together already.

Final Thoughts:

There’s no single “best” combo—it really comes down to the individual cats. But with Ragdolls' famously gentle nature, most pairings work beautifully. Whether you go for two boys, two girls, or a mix, you're in for a home full of love, purrs, and plenty of fluff.