I only want a girl

“I only want a girl!”

If I had a treat for every time someone told me they were only interested in a female kitten… I’d have to hide the Temptations bag.

Here’s the truth that most breeders know — and most kitten buyers don’t:

Male Ragdolls are often the bigger snugglers, the clowns, and the easiest to please.

Yes, really.

While people assume girls are sweeter or calmer, it’s usually the boys who are glued to your side, flopping in your lap like they own the place. They’re laid-back, goofy, and endlessly cuddly.

And the girls?

Also wonderful — but often a little more independent, opinionated, and (dare I say it?) a bit bossy. We lovingly call them the “queens” of the house. They adore their people, but usually on their own terms.

So why are females requested more often?

Because of some very common — and honestly, outdated — ideas:

• That females are smaller, sweeter, and easier to live with

• That males spray or are more territorial (when neutered boys usually aren’t at all)

• That people want a girl to “match” their family or replace a female they once loved

But here’s what experienced breeders will tell you:

• Males tend to be more consistently affectionate, easygoing, and people-focused

• Females can be a little sassier, more independent, and like to run the show

So if you’re open-minded, here’s something to consider:

Your perfect kitten might not be the gender you expected.

And if you know exactly what you want? That’s totally okay too.

Just thought it was worth saying out loud.